It was a hot, sunny day today– perfect for the Camp Takajo Invitational Swim Meet. What is surprising about this iconic event is that not only does it include campers in all age groups, but it is a fantastic spectator sport as well. As I looked out on our waterfront this afternoon, I could not help but be proud of our swim staff, dressed in their red swimsuits and white tank tops. Wearing those uniforms for our swim staff is a badge of honor because they all went through rigorous training before the campers’ arrival. Each member of our swim staff is a certified lifeguard and is proficient in CPR and first aid. What was most meaningful today was that they exhibited professionalism, enthusiasm, and encouragement for our boys. I love camp events that bring out this community, when we root for each other no matter the outcome.
While hot and humid days are perfect for the waterfront, they are not so appealing when it is time to be in the bunk. These are often the days when little squabbles occur among boys because the heat level is high and patience is low. What’s most gratifying to me is that most kids feel comfortable enough to come to me when something is troubling them. I am deeply saddened when I find out that a child has internalized his anxiety because one of the greatest skills we can teach a child is how to communicate.
Parents often ask me, “What is the best way to determine whether a child is happy in camp?”
I often respond, “Look in his eyes.”
A child’s eyes can tell an incredible story. Are they focused on the conversation while sitting at the table during dinner? Are they engaged with the heat of the moment during a sporting event? Will they look at you during a conversation? Eye contact and body language are often excellent indicators of whether a child feels relaxed and happy in his environment.
I have picked up countless issues over the years by “reading” a child’s eyes, and it has allowed me the opportunity to teach a young boy that his feelings matter. While the camp celebrates the big victories, I relish in the small ones. Making a child feel more at home, letting him know that he is a valued member of our community, these are the victories that matter most to me.
