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What’s Happening at Camp Takajo, August 14, 2014

By August 14, 2014 January 4th, 2019 Tak Talk
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As I sit down to write the final blog post of the season, I can’t help but think how excited you must be to see your sons. I am often asked what kind of parent can let their child go away to a sleep-away camp for the summer and my response is always, “A great parent!”
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You have given your child an incredible gift because you are instilling strong moral values in your home, and teaching your son how to be considerate of others. He has had the foundation to thrive away from you in the summer camp environment. Many parents today are accused of being “helicopter” parents. But, your ability to send your child to summer camp is teaching your child that you have confidence in his ability to think independently and make good choices when you are not around. There is no better outdoor classroom for children than in a full summer camp experience to learn social cues, learning how to become a member of a team, how to share, cooperate, and be self-reliant.

Here are some things to think about as you greet your son as he acclimates back to his home environment: He is physically exhausted! While you are going to be eager to hear all about his camp experience, please keep in mind that the fast pace of camp and monotonous beautiful weather has taken a lot out of us over the course of the summer.
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You will most probably hear the funny stories about what occurred after Taps, heroics during an Olympic game, or the amazing camp trip at a random moment when something reminds your son of these events. Let your son acclimate to his home life gradually, and naturally. He doesn’t need to do everything that he likes all at once.

While your routine will not be as structured as camp, please keep in mind that your son may appear somewhat bored or disconnected because he is suffering from “camp withdrawal.” Try to listen but don’t feel the need to react. Please keep in mind that your son experienced many new social situations, and his perception of a situation maybe somewhat different from what actually transpired.

Applaud your child’s ability to succeed away from his most comfortable environment. Having had the opportunity to spend the last seven weeks, and for some, as many as ten summers with your son, I am humbled by your confidence and trust. I am already counting down the days until I see you back at Camp Takajo on the shores of Long Lake. Please have a happy and healthy off-season!