We had an incredible visiting day at Camp Takajo. The weather was picture-perfect. which created a wonderful opportunity for our parents and grandparents to be able to enjoy special time with their children.
When the activity whistle sounded, our campers bolted out of their bunks and made their way to their first activity, eagerly awaiting the sight of a familiar face they had not seen in four weeks. Seeing parents reconnect with their children and the sheer love that radiates from their bodies is a beautiful sight to witness. Today gave campers the opportunity to introduce their parents to our wonderful staff, show them the improvements we have made to our facilities, and the skills they have learned during the first half of the summer. I love the chance to welcome first-time parents to the campus and witness their joy as they see their child thrive in their new summer home. It is a wonderful accomplishment for a little boy to step away from his safest and most comfortable environment and learn how to navigate on his own in a camp setting.
I loved reconnecting with veteran parents and grandparents. I share the love for your child and the commitment to create an environment that fosters great friendships and important life skills. What was most endearing about today was talking to those parents whose sons are Okees and graduating after this summer. We recounted stories of the early years at camp, and like with many of our youngest campers, the early years are the emotional ones.
Many of our oldest boys were once insecure, impulsive and even slightly selfish. But through the years, they have learned what it means to be a valued member of a community and that acts of kindness and teamwork create deep friendships that will last beyond their final days at camp. One mom told me her husband suggested their son should not come back for his final year at Takajo so he could go on a trip and spend time with his family. However, his son’s response was, “I’m going back to camp so that I can spend time with my family.”
For some little boys, saying goodbye is very difficult. Unfortunately, the last image that a parent may see on visiting day is that of a weeping child. I walked one boy into the dining room this evening who was emotional after his parents’ departure. But, I had the opportunity to witness two of his friends come up to him, put their arms around him and walk him over to their table for dinner. These are the defining moments at camp. It is the parent who allows their child to struggle that gives him the biggest chance at developing inner strength and self-confidence. This is the essence of the camp experience.
Tomorrow is another visiting day. The forecast is bright sunshine and clear skies with emotions running high and low. It is an honor to share all of these moments with you and your sons. I’m looking forward to seeing many of you tomorrow.
